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{"id":1078,"date":"2014-07-03T19:52:24","date_gmt":"2014-07-03T19:52:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kocar.org\/?p=1078"},"modified":"2014-07-04T13:01:02","modified_gmt":"2014-07-04T13:01:02","slug":"insafli-asik-kadin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.kocar.org\/yazilar\/insafli-asik-kadin\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130nsafl\u0131 A\u015f\u0131k Kad\u0131n"},"content":{"rendered":"A<\/span>hmed b. Said el-\u00c2bid rahmetullahi aleyh, babas\u0131ndan duydu\u011fu bir h\u00e2diseyi \u015f\u00f6yle anlatmaktad\u0131r:
\nK\u00fbfe\u2019de bizim yan\u0131m\u0131zda ibadet eden bir gen\u00e7 bulunuyordu. Bu gen\u00e7, mescitten \u00e7\u0131km\u0131yordu. Neredeyse mescidi terk etmez hale gelmi\u015fti. G\u00fczel y\u00fczl\u00fc, boyu posu yerinde, g\u00fczel ahlakl\u0131 idi. G\u00fczel ve ak\u0131ll\u0131 bir kad\u0131n ona a\u015f\u0131k oldu. Bu a\u015fk uzun bir zaman devam etti.
\nBir g\u00fcn kad\u0131n bu gencin yolu \u00fczerinde durdu. Gen\u00e7 camiye gitmek istiyordu. Kad\u0131n ona:
\n\u201cEy gen\u00e7! Seninle konu\u015fmak istiyorum. Sonra istedi\u011fini yap!\u201d dedi.
\nBuna ra\u011fmen gen\u00e7, kad\u0131n\u0131 dinlemeden ve onunla konu\u015fmadan yoluna devam etti. Mescid d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fc kad\u0131n evine gitmekte olan gencin kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na yine \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131 ve ona:
\n\u201cEy gen\u00e7! Seninle konu\u015fmak istedi\u011fim birka\u00e7 kelimeyi benden dinle!\u201d dedi. Gen\u00e7, ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 e\u011ferek bir m\u00fcddet d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc ve:
\n\u201cBenim seninle konu\u015fmam \u015f\u00fcphe uyand\u0131r\u0131r. Ben ise t\u00f6hmete f\u0131rsat vermek istemiyorum.\u201d dedi. Kad\u0131n \u015f\u00f6yle konu\u015ftu:
\n\u201cAllah\u2019a yemin ederim ki ben senin durumunu bilmiyor de\u011filim. \u00c2bid kimselerin b\u00f6yle bir durumu benden g\u00f6rmelerinden Allah\u2019a s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131yorum. Siz \u00e2bidlerin billur gibi olup leke kabul etmeyece\u011fini bilirim. Sana s\u00f6yleyeceklerimin \u00f6z\u00fc \u015fudur: B\u00fct\u00fcn azalar\u0131m seninle me\u015fguld\u00fcr….\u201d
\nGen\u00e7, evine gitti. Namaz k\u0131lmak istedi. Fakat kendini tam haz\u0131r hissedemedi\u011fi i\u00e7in eline bir ka\u011f\u0131t ald\u0131 ve yazd\u0131. Sonra evinden \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. Bakt\u0131 ki kad\u0131n h\u00e2l\u00e2 yerinde durmaktad\u0131r. Mektubu kad\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131na att\u0131 ve \u201cve evine d\u00f6nd\u00fc. Mektupta \u015funlar yaz\u0131l\u0131yd\u0131:
\n\u201cRahman ve Rah\u00eem Allah\u2019\u0131n ismiyle ba\u015flar\u0131m. Ey kad\u0131n! Allah Te\u00e2la, kulu kendisine ilk isyan etti\u011fi zaman hal\u00eem olur. Kulu ikinci defa g\u00fcnaha d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc zaman kulunun kusurunu \u00f6rter. Kul, g\u00fcnah\u0131n elbisesini tamamen giydi\u011fi zaman, Allah Teala nefsi i\u00e7in \u00f6yle bir \u015fekilde gazaba gelir ki, O\u2019nun gazab\u0131ndan g\u00f6kler, yer, da\u011flar, a\u011fa\u00e7lar ve hayvanlar korkarlar. Allah\u2019\u0131n gazab\u0131na kim g\u00fc\u00e7 yetirebilir?
\nE\u011fer benim s\u00f6ylediklerim b\u00e2t\u0131l ise, ben sana \u00f6yle bir g\u00fcn\u00fc hat\u0131rlat\u0131yorum ki, g\u00f6k o g\u00fcnde eritilmi\u015f kur\u015fun gibi, da\u011flar o g\u00fcnde at\u0131lm\u0131\u015f pamuk gibi olur. Az\u00eem ve Cebb\u00e2r olan Allah\u2019\u0131n savleti \u00f6n\u00fcnde \u00fcmmetler diz \u00e7\u00f6kerler.
\n\u201cYemin ederim ki nefsimi \u0131slah etmekten zay\u0131f d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcm! Nerede kald\u0131 ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131 \u0131slah edeyim. E\u011fer benim s\u00f6ylediklerim hak ise hakt\u0131r. Ben sana bir hidayet doktoru g\u00f6stereyim ki o doktor, hasta eden yaralar\u0131 ve ac\u0131lar\u0131 tedavi eder. O doktor, \u00c2lemlerin Rabbi olan Alllah\u2019t\u0131r. Do\u011fruyu istemek suretiyle Allah\u2019a y\u00f6nel! Benden sana fayda yok. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ben, Allah Teala\u2019n\u0131n \u015fu ayetiyle me\u015fgul\u00fcm:
\n\u201cOnlar\u0131 yakla\u015fan g\u00fcne kar\u015f\u0131 uyar. Zira o g\u00fcn y\u00fcrekler (korkudan adeta yerinden s\u00f6k\u00fcl\u00fcp) g\u0131rtlaklara dayanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r; yutkunur dururlar. Z\u00e2limlerin ne bir dostu, ne de s\u00f6z\u00fc tutulur bir arac\u0131lar\u0131 yoktur. (Allah) g\u00f6zlerin bak\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 da, kalplerin gizledi\u011fini de bilir.\u201d (M\u00fc\u2019min, 18-19).<\/p>\n\u0130mam-\u0131 Gazali. \u0130hya<\/p>\n