J) Evlilikte Kar\u0131 kocan\u0131n Kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 Mali Hak ve G\u00f6revleri:<\/strong><\/p>\n 1) Kad\u0131n\u0131n Haklar\u0131:<\/strong><\/p>\n Bir\u00e7ok toplumda, erkek taraf\u0131 evlenece\u011fi k\u0131z\u0131n ailesine para ya da sair bir mal verme gelene\u011fi vard\u0131r. Eski T\u00fcrkler\u2019de \u201ckal\u0131n\u201d uygulamas\u0131 da bu niteliktedir. Yaln\u0131z Hristiyanl\u0131kta mehrin aksine, kad\u0131n\u0131n ailesi erke\u011fe drahoma ad\u0131yla bir mebla\u011f verir.<\/p>\n Mehir nik\u00e2h s\u0131ras\u0131nda belirlenip belirlenmemesine g\u00f6re ikiye ayr\u0131l\u0131r. Evlilik s\u0131ras\u0131nda miktar\u0131 belirlenmi\u015fse buna \u201cmehr-i m\u00fcsemm\u00e2\u201d, belirlenmemi\u015fse \u201cmehr-i misil\u201d denir. Yine evlilik s\u0131ras\u0131nda pe\u015fin \u00f6denen mehre \u201cmehr-i muaccel\u201d, \u00f6denmesi sonraya b\u0131rak\u0131lan mehre ise \u201cmehr-i m\u00fceccel\u201d ad\u0131 verilir. Ancak mehrin \u00f6denme zaman\u0131 belirlenmemi\u015fse, ilke olarak bo\u015fanma an\u0131nda veya e\u015flerden birisinin \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc durumunda mehrin vadesi gelmi\u015f say\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n Ebu Hanife\u2019ye g\u00f6re mehrin en az miktar\u0131 10 dirhem (5 dirhem yakla\u015f\u0131k bir koyun bedeli), \u0130mam M\u00e2lik\u2019e g\u00f6re \u00fc\u00e7 dirhemdir. \u015e\u00e2fi\u00ee ve Ahmed \u0130bn Hanbel\u2019e g\u00f6re ise en az\u0131 i\u00e7in bir s\u0131n\u0131r yoktur. Mehrin en \u00e7ok miktar\u0131 i\u00e7in bir s\u0131n\u0131r getirilmemi\u015ftir. Ayette,<\/p>\n buyurulur. Hz. \u00d6mer mehirleri 400 dirhemle s\u0131n\u0131rlamak istemi\u015f, fakat bir kad\u0131n\u0131n yukar\u0131daki ayeti okuyarak kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131 \u00fczerine s\u0131n\u0131rlamadan vazge\u00e7mi\u015ftir. [57]\n Kad\u0131n; nik\u00e2h s\u0131ras\u0131nda bir mehir belirlenmi\u015fse buna, belirlenmemi\u015fse aileden emsal k\u0131zlar\u0131n mehri kadar\u0131na hak kazan\u0131r. Mehir kad\u0131n\u0131n hakk\u0131 ve onun i\u00e7in iktisad\u00ee bir destektir. Onu veli al\u0131p, kendisi i\u00e7in sarf edemez.<\/p>\n Kur\u2019an\u2019da \u015f\u00f6yle buyurulur:<\/p>\n Kocan\u0131n ev masraflar\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131lamamas\u0131 durumunda kad\u0131n mahkemeye ba\u015fvurarak kendisine nafaka takdir ettirebilir. Bunun belirlenmesinde kar\u0131 kocan\u0131n m\u00e2l\u00ee ve sosyal durumlar\u0131 birlikte dikkate al\u0131n\u0131r. Yaln\u0131z kocan\u0131n durumu dikkate al\u0131n\u0131r, diyen fakihler de vard\u0131r. Kad\u0131n takdir edilen nafakay\u0131 gerekti\u011finde icra yoluyla al\u0131r. Nafakay\u0131 \u00f6demeyen koca hapisle zorlanabilir. Ancak yoksul olan kocay\u0131 hapisle zorlama uygun olmaz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Kur\u2019an\u2019da, dara d\u00fc\u015fen bor\u00e7luya, eli geni\u015fleyinceye kadar s\u00fcre tan\u0131nmas\u0131 tavsiye edilir. [61]\n Kar\u0131 koca, nafaka borcu ve miktar\u0131 \u00fczerinde anla\u015fmam\u0131\u015fsa veya h\u00e2kim taraf\u0131ndan takdir yap\u0131lmam\u0131\u015fsa, taraflardan birinin \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc, bo\u015fanma veya kad\u0131n\u0131n itaatsiz (n\u00e2\u015fize) duruma d\u00fc\u015fmesi ile \u00f6denmeyen nafaka d\u00fc\u015fer.<\/p>\n \u015e\u00e2fi\u00ee, M\u00e2lik\u00ee ve Hanbel\u00ee mezheplerine g\u00f6re ise nafaka h\u00e2kimin takdirine ba\u011fl\u0131 olmaks\u0131z\u0131n kuvvetli bir alacak say\u0131l\u0131r ve ancak \u00f6denmekle veya nafaka alacakl\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n kendi hakk\u0131ndan vazge\u00e7mesi (ibr\u00e2) ile d\u00fc\u015fer.<\/p>\n Bununla birlikte kad\u0131n, kendisine ait gelirleri aile harcamalar\u0131na kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmayarak tasarruf da edebilir. Bunlar\u0131 karz (\u00f6d\u00fcn\u00e7) olarak kocas\u0131na kulland\u0131rabilir. Kendisine ait parayla sat\u0131n al\u0131nan ta\u015f\u0131n\u0131r veya ta\u015f\u0131nmaz mallar\u0131n kendi m\u00fclkiyetinde kalmas\u0131n\u0131 isteyebilir. Kocas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc veya bo\u015fanma durumunda, kendisine ait mal ve haklar\u0131n\u0131 ayr\u0131ca hesaplatt\u0131rarak, miras d\u0131\u015f\u0131 kalmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayabilir.<\/p>\n 2) Kocan\u0131n haklar\u0131:<\/p>\n Kocan\u0131n kar\u0131s\u0131 \u00fczerinde miras d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bir m\u00e2l\u00ee hakk\u0131 bulunmamaktad\u0131r. Hatta kad\u0131n, kendisine ait bir evi ikametine tahsis etmesi i\u00e7in kocas\u0131na kiraya verebilir. [62] Kar\u0131 kocan\u0131n birbirine kar\u015f\u0131 sevgi ve sayg\u0131 ile davranmas\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 hak ve bor\u00e7lardand\u0131r.<\/p>\n Evli e\u015fler aras\u0131nda, ev i\u00e7i, ev d\u0131\u015f\u0131 i\u015flerde bir g\u00f6rev b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc eski \u00e7a\u011flardan beri her devirde olmu\u015ftur. Bu konuda e\u015flerin ruh ve fizik yap\u0131lar\u0131, soysal ve k\u00fclt\u00fcrel \u00e7evre belirleyici olmu\u015ftur. Hz. Peygamber\u2019in evin i\u00e7indeki i\u015fleri k\u0131z\u0131 F\u00e2t\u0131ma\u2019ya, d\u0131\u015far\u0131daki i\u015fleri ise damad\u0131 Hz. Ali\u2019ye \u00f6\u011f\u00fctlemesi bu konuda geleneksel g\u00f6rev b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fc \u0130sl\u00e2m\u2019\u0131n da onaylad\u0131\u011f\u0131 anlam\u0131na gelebilir. Buna g\u00f6re d\u0131\u015far\u0131da \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmayan bir kad\u0131n\u0131n evin i\u00e7indeki i\u015fleri makul ve mar\u00fbf \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcler i\u00e7inde yapmas\u0131, \u201ciyi ge\u00e7im kurallar\u0131\u201d na uyma olarak kabul edilebilir.<\/p>\n II- EVL\u0130L\u0130\u011e\u0130N SONA ERMES\u0130<\/strong><\/p>\n Evli e\u015flerden birisinin \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc, do\u011fal olarak evlili\u011fi sona erdirir. Bunun d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda evlili\u011fin bir eksiklik y\u00fcz\u00fcnden feshedilmesi veya mahkeme taraf\u0131ndan tefrik karar\u0131 verilmesi, bo\u015fanma, il\u00e2, z\u0131h\u00e2r, muh\u00e2lea ve h\u00e2kim karar\u0131yla bo\u015fanma gibi evlili\u011fi sona erdiren durumlar vard\u0131r. A\u015fa\u011f\u0131da bunlar\u0131 k\u0131saca a\u00e7\u0131klayaca\u011f\u0131z.<\/p>\n 1)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Evlili\u011fin Bo\u015fanma Yoluyla Sona Ermesi:<\/strong><\/p>\n Bakara S\u00fbresi 29, 30 ncu ayetlerde bo\u015faman\u0131n \u00fc\u00e7 kez olabilece\u011fi \u015f\u00f6yle belirtilir:<\/p>\n Ayette kad\u0131n\u0131n fidye verip bo\u015famay\u0131 sa\u011flamas\u0131 \u201cmuh\u00e2lea\u201d ad\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131r. Hz. Peygamber, S\u00e2bit b. Kays\u2019la ge\u00e7inemeyen e\u015finin ba\u015fvurusu \u00fczerine, mehir olarak ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 hurma bah\u00e7esini kocas\u0131na geri vermesi s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc alarak, S\u00e2bit\u2019e \u015f\u00f6yle demi\u015ftir: \u201cBah\u00e7eyi kabul et ve onu bir defa da bo\u015fa.\u201d[64]\n \u00c7o\u011funluk fakihlere g\u00f6re muh\u00e2lea sonunda bir b\u00e2in (kesin) bo\u015fama meydana gelir. \u0130mam \u015e\u00e2fi\u00ee\u2019ye g\u00f6re ise muh\u00e2lea bo\u015fama de\u011fil, fesih say\u0131l\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bedelli bo\u015fama, Bakara s\u00fbresi 229 ve 230. ayetlerde \u00fc\u00e7 bo\u015faman\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda, d\u00f6rd\u00fcnc\u00fc bir y\u00f6ntem olarak d\u00fczenlemi\u015ftir. Halbuki bo\u015fama say\u0131s\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fc ge\u00e7emez. Di\u011fer mezhepler ise s\u00f6z\u00fc edilen ayetlerdeki bo\u015famalar\u0131 bedelli ve bedelsiz olarak \u00fc\u00e7 say\u0131s\u0131 i\u00e7inde de\u011ferlendirmi\u015ftir. [65]\n Bo\u015fanma s\u00fcreci yukar\u0131daki ayetlerin tamamlay\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 olan Talak S\u00fbresi 1 ve 2 nci ayetlerde \u015f\u00f6yle belirtilir:<\/p>\n Yukar\u0131daki ayetler dikkatlice incelendi\u011finde, kad\u0131n\u0131n ayn\u0131 anda de\u011fil, ayr\u0131 zamanlarda bo\u015fanabilece\u011fi sonucuna ula\u015f\u0131l\u0131r. Nitekim yukar\u0131da zikretti\u011fimiz, Buh\u00e2r\u00ee ve M\u00fcslim\u2019in bo\u015fanma konusunun hemen ba\u015f\u0131nda verdikleri Abdullah \u0130bn \u00d6mer\u2019le ilgili \u015fu hadis bu s\u00fcreci belirleyicidir:, Abdullah, Ras\u00fbl\u00fcllah (s.a.s) d\u00f6neminde \u00e2detli olan e\u015fini bo\u015fam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Hz. \u00d6mer, bunun h\u00fckm\u00fcn\u00fc Neb\u00ee (s.a.s)\u2019e sordu. Allah\u2019\u0131n el\u00e7isi \u015f\u00f6yle buyurdu: \u201cOna emret, e\u015fine d\u00f6ns\u00fcn, sonra temizleninceye kadar onu tutsun (terk etsin), sonra \u00e2det g\u00f6rs\u00fcn, sonra temizlensin. Bundan sonra isterse tutsun, dilerse cinsel ili\u015fkiye girmezden \u00f6nce bo\u015fas\u0131n. \u0130\u015fte, Allah\u2019\u0131n kad\u0131nlar\u0131 i\u00e7inde bo\u015fanmas\u0131n\u0131 emretti\u011fi iddet (Tal\u00e2k, 65\/1) budur.\u201d [69]\n Ancak Hz. \u00d6mer\u2019in halifeli\u011fi s\u0131ras\u0131nda, e\u015fini \u00fc\u00e7 talakla birden bo\u015famalar yayg\u0131nla\u015f\u0131nca, bir ceza olmak \u00fczere bu tasarrufun ge\u00e7erli say\u0131lmas\u0131 yoluna gidilmi\u015ftir. Abdullah \u0130bn Abbas (r.anh\u00fcm\u00e2)\u2019dan nakledildi\u011fine g\u00f6re, o \u015f\u00f6yle demi\u015ftir: \u201cAllah\u2019\u0131n Ras\u00fbl\u00fc ile Eb\u00fb Bekir d\u00f6neminde ve Hz. \u00d6mer\u2019in halifeli\u011finin ilk iki y\u0131l\u0131nda \u00fc\u00e7 bo\u015fama bir say\u0131l\u0131yordu. \u00d6mer, \u201c\u015e\u00fcphesiz insanlar kendilerine s\u00fcre verilen bir konuda acele ediyorlar. \u015eunu onlara ge\u00e7erli saysak, dedi ve onu kendilerine uygulad\u0131.\u201d (M\u00fcslim, Tal\u00e2k, 15). Bu rivayet, Hz. Peygamber d\u00f6neminde, bir s\u00f6zle yap\u0131lan \u00fc\u00e7 bo\u015faman\u0131n bir say\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, Hz. Eb\u00fb Bekir devrinde ve \u00d6mer\u2019in halifeli\u011finin ilk iki y\u0131l\u0131nda da uygulaman\u0131n bu \u015fekilde s\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6stermektedir. Bu durum, konu hakk\u0131nda nesih cereyan etmedi\u011fini ve Hz. \u00d6mer\u2019in uygulamas\u0131n\u0131n bir maslahat ve bo\u015fama konusunda ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan yeni duruma bir \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm bulmaktan ibaret oldu\u011funu da g\u00f6stermektedir.<\/p>\n Di\u011fer yandan evlili\u011fi sona erdiren \u201cz\u0131har\u201d, [70] \u201cil\u00e2\u201d, [71] hakeme ba\u015fvurma yoluyla bo\u015fanma,[72] gibi y\u00f6ntemler de vard\u0131r. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz mahkeme yoluyla bo\u015fanmay\u0131 e\u015flerin resm\u00ee nik\u00e2h s\u0131ras\u0131nda ald\u0131klar\u0131 bir bo\u015fama yetkisini kullanma olarak de\u011ferlendirmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Kad\u0131na tan\u0131nan bu bo\u015fama yetkisine \u201ctefviz-i talak\u201d denilir. A\u015fa\u011f\u0131da bununla ilgili bilgi verece\u011fiz.<\/p>\n 2)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Kad\u0131n\u0131n Bo\u015fanma Hakk\u0131 (Tefv\u00eez-i Talak):<\/strong><\/p>\n Medine d\u00f6neminde M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u0131n durumlar\u0131 iyile\u015fip, maddi imk\u00e2nlar \u00e7o\u011falmaya ba\u015flay\u0131nca, Hz. Peygamber\u2019in e\u015fleri di\u011fer han\u0131mlar gibi g\u00fczel tak\u0131 ve giysiler istemi\u015fler, bu konuda ileri gidince, Allah\u2019\u0131n el\u00e7isi ile bir aya yak\u0131n ayr\u0131l\u0131k ya\u015fam\u0131\u015flard\u0131. \u0130sl\u00e2m fakihleri bu ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u201c\u00eel\u00e2\u201d olarak nitelerler. Bu bir \u00e7e\u015fit, e\u015fler aras\u0131nda yemine dayal\u0131 ayr\u0131 ya\u015fama karar\u0131n\u0131 ifade eder. \u0130sl\u00e2m gelmezden \u00f6nce e\u015fine yakla\u015fmamak \u00fczere yap\u0131lan b\u00f6yle bir yemin s\u00fcreli veya s\u00fcresiz olarak, s\u0131rf kad\u0131na bask\u0131 i\u00e7in yap\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131. \u0130sl\u00e2m bunu Bakara s\u00fbresi 2\/226 ve 227 nci ayetleri ile d\u00f6rt ay s\u00fcreyle s\u0131n\u0131rlad\u0131. E\u011fer d\u00f6rt ay i\u00e7inde bar\u0131\u015fma olursa, yemin kef\u00e2reti verilerek evlilik normal hale d\u00f6necekti. E\u011fer ayr\u0131l\u0131k d\u00f6rt ay\u0131 ge\u00e7erse, evlilik kesin bo\u015fama ile sora erecektir.<\/p>\n \u0130\u015fte Hz. Peygamber e\u015fleriyle b\u00f6yle bir s\u00fcre\u00e7 ya\u015farken Ahz\u00e2b s\u00fbresinin \u015fu ayetleri inmi\u015ftir:<\/p>\n Hz. Peygamber yukar\u0131daki ayetler inince, e\u015flerine isteyenin ayr\u0131labilece\u011fini bildirmi\u015ftir. Ancak e\u015fler, g\u00f6z ya\u015flar\u0131 i\u00e7inde, Allah ve el\u00e7isini tercih ettiklerini bildirmi\u015flerdir. [75]\n Evli bir erkek, vekil arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile bo\u015fanabilece\u011fi gibi, bu yetkiyi kendi e\u015fine de verebilir. Buna \u201ctefv\u00eez\u201d denir. S\u00fcrekli olarak verilince, art\u0131k kocan\u0131n bundan d\u00f6nmesi ge\u00e7erli olmaz. Bunun delili yukar\u0131daki ayet ve ona dayal\u0131 s\u00fcnnettir.<\/p>\n Hz. Ai\u015fe \u015f\u00f6yle demi\u015ftir: \u201cYukar\u0131daki ayetler inince, Allah\u2019\u0131n Ras\u00fbl\u2019\u00fc, benimle ba\u015flad\u0131, dedi ki: Sana bir \u015fey s\u00f6yleyece\u011fim, fakat ana- babanla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcp, izin almad\u0131k\u00e7a, cevap vermede acele etme!\u201d Ai\u015fe dedi ki: O, babam\u0131n bana ayr\u0131lma konusunda izin vermeyece\u011fini biliyordu. Allah\u2019\u0131n Rasul\u2019\u00fc, bundan sonra Ahz\u00e2b, 33\/28, 29 ncu ayetlerini okudu. Ben dedim ki: Hangi konuda, ebeveynimden izin isteyeyim? \u015e\u00fcphesiz ben, Allah\u2019\u0131, Ras\u00fbl\u2019\u00fcn\u00fc ve ahiret yurdunu istiyorum. Sonra, Neb\u00ee (s.a.s)\u2019in \u00f6b\u00fcr e\u015fleri de benim yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131n benzerini yapt\u0131lar.\u201d [76] Ba\u015fka bir rivayette, Hz. Ai\u015fe, \u201cBu se\u00e7me, bizim aleyhimize bir sonu\u00e7 do\u011furmad\u0131.\u201d Bir di\u011fer rivayette: \u201cAllah\u2019\u0131n Ras\u00fbl\u00fc bunu bir bo\u015fama olarak saymad\u0131.\u201d demi\u015ftir. [77] Buna g\u00f6re, \u0130sl\u00e2m hukukunda, bo\u015fanma yetkisi konusunda erkekle kad\u0131n\u0131n \u201ctefv\u00eez-i talak\u201d m\u00fcessesesi i\u015fletilerek e\u015fit haklara sahip k\u0131l\u0131nmas\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n 3)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Dini Nik\u00e2h- Resmi Nik\u00e2h \u0130kilemi:<\/strong><\/p>\n 1917 tarihli Osmanl\u0131 Devleti Hukuk-\u0131 Aile Kararnamesi 4. Maddede, \u201cNik\u00e2h ehliyetine sahip olmak i\u00e7in evlenecek erke\u011fin 18, kad\u0131n\u0131n 17 ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ikmal etmi\u015f olmas\u0131 \u015fartt\u0131r.\u201d denilmi\u015f ve 37. Maddede resmi nik\u00e2h prosed\u00fcr\u00fc \u015f\u00f6yle belirlenmi\u015ftir: \u201cAkit s\u0131ras\u0131nda, evlenecek erkek veya kad\u0131ndan birinin ikametg\u00e2h\u0131 bulunun kaza h\u00e2kimi veya n\u00e2ibi haz\u0131r bulunup nik\u00e2h akdini tanzim ve tescil eder.\u201d<\/p>\n G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz uygulamas\u0131nda resmi nik\u00e2htan sonra yap\u0131lan dini nik\u00e2h, resmi nik\u00e2h\u0131n onaylanmas\u0131 ve dini esaslara da uygunlu\u011funu onaylama niteli\u011findedir. Resmi nik\u00e2hla, e\u015fler bu nik\u00e2h\u0131n sona erdirilme \u015fekli konusunda da anla\u015fm\u0131\u015f say\u0131lmaktad\u0131r. Buna g\u00f6re resmi evli olan e\u015fler bu evlili\u011fi mahkeme yani hakem \u00f6n\u00fcnde sona erdirme konusunda e\u015fit haklara sahip olmaktad\u0131rlar. Bu da kad\u0131na bir bo\u015fama (tefv\u00eez-i talak) hakk\u0131 vermekten ba\u015fka bir \u015fey de\u011fildir. Bo\u015fama konusunda vek\u00e2lette sonradan azil yoluyla ruc\u00fb etmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011fu halde, tefv\u00eez s\u00fcre zikredilmeden verildi\u011fi zaman, evlilik bo\u015fanma veya \u00f6l\u00fcmle sona erinceye kadar devam eder. Bu \u00f6zelli\u011fi ile vek\u00e2let ve tefviz birbirinden farkl\u0131 tasarruflard\u0131r.<\/p>\n Hz. Peygamber\u2019in yukar\u0131daki ayetlerle verdi\u011fi bo\u015fanma hakk\u0131 ise, s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 bir s\u00fcreyi kapsam\u0131\u015f ve e\u015fler evlili\u011fe devam etme iradesini bildirince bo\u015fanma meydana gelmemi\u015ftir. Hz. Ai\u015fe\u2019nin yukar\u0131da verdi\u011fimiz a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131ndan bu durum a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a anla\u015f\u0131lmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n Sonu\u00e7 olarak, bo\u015fanan kad\u0131n bo\u015fama hangi \u00e7e\u015fitten olursa olsun, \u00fc\u00e7 hay\u0131z ve temizlenme s\u00fcresince iddet bekler. [78] Bu iddet s\u00fcresince de kocan\u0131n nafaka y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc devam eder. Kad\u0131n gebe ise, bu y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fck do\u011fuma kadar s\u00fcrer. Ancak \u015e\u00e2fi\u00ee, M\u00e2lik\u00ee ve Hanbel\u00ee mezheplerine g\u00f6re \u00fc\u00e7 kez bo\u015fanan kad\u0131na iddet s\u00fcresince yaln\u0131z mesken temin edilir, giyim, yiyecek ve benzerleri gerekmez.<\/p>\n Di\u011fer yandan evlilik s\u00fcresince edinilen mal varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n kazan\u0131lmas\u0131nda kad\u0131n\u0131n da \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 ve katk\u0131s\u0131 dikkate al\u0131narak bir mal ay\u0131r\u0131m\u0131 yoluna gidilmesi gerekir. Bat\u0131 toplumlar\u0131nda e\u015flerin katk\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n birbirine yak\u0131n oldu\u011fu dikkate al\u0131narak, evlilik s\u00fcresince elde edilen mal varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n ikiye b\u00f6l\u00fcnmesi ilkesi uygulanmaktad\u0131r. Son d\u00f6nemde T\u00fcrkiye de bu ilkeyi uygulamaktad\u0131r. Kur\u2019an-\u0131 Kerim\u2019de aile konusunda s\u0131k\u00e7a \u201cma\u2019r\u00fbf\u201d ilkesine vurgu yap\u0131lmas\u0131 dikkat \u00e7ekicidir. Ayette:<\/p>\n buyurularak, bo\u015fand\u0131ktan sonras\u0131 i\u00e7in bir s\u00fcre belirtilmedi\u011fi g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr. Buna g\u00f6re bo\u015fanma y\u00fcz\u00fcnden kad\u0131n\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck bir s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131ya d\u00fc\u015fmesi halinde, bo\u015fayan kocan\u0131n ona kar\u015f\u0131 iyi bilinen \u00f6rfe g\u00f6re deste\u011finin devam etmesi gerekti\u011fine i\u015faret edilir.<\/span><\/p>\n J) Evlilikte Kar\u0131 kocan\u0131n Kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 Mali Hak ve G\u00f6revleri: 1) Kad\u0131n\u0131n Haklar\u0131: a) Mehir hakk\u0131: Erke\u011fin evlenirken kar\u0131s\u0131na verdi\u011fi veya vermeyi taahh\u00fct etti\u011fi para veya mala \u201cmehir\u201d denir. Kur\u2019an\u2019da, (\u2026\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0670\u062a\u064f\u0648\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u0650\u0633\u064e\u0627\u06e4\u0621\u064e \u0635\u064e\u062f\u064f\u0642\u064e\u0627\u062a\u0650\u0647\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e \u0646\u0650\u062d\u0652\u0644\u064e\u0629\u064b ) \u201cAld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z kad\u0131nlar\u0131n mehirlerini g\u00f6n\u00fcl ho\u015flu\u011fu ile veriniz\u201d [54] buyurulur. Mehir evlili\u011fin r\u00fck\u00fcn veya \u015fartlar\u0131ndan de\u011fil, nafaka gibi kocaya vacip olan mali …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3406,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,5],"tags":[74,324,103,58,573,229,132,468],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.kocar.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3407"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.kocar.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.kocar.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.kocar.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.kocar.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3407"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/www.kocar.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3407\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3410,"href":"http:\/\/www.kocar.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3407\/revisions\/3410"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.kocar.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3406"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.kocar.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3407"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.kocar.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3407"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.kocar.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3407"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}\n
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(\u2026<\/strong>\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0670\u062a\u064f\u0648\u0627 <\/strong>\u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u0650\u0633\u064e\u0627\u06e4\u0621\u064e <\/strong>\u0635\u064e\u062f\u064f\u0642\u064e\u0627\u062a\u0650\u0647\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e <\/strong>\u0646\u0650\u062d\u0652\u0644\u064e\u0629\u064b ) \u201cAld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z kad\u0131nlar\u0131n mehirlerini g\u00f6n\u00fcl ho\u015flu\u011fu ile veriniz\u201d [54]<\/strong> buyurulur. Mehir evlili\u011fin r\u00fck\u00fcn veya \u015fartlar\u0131ndan de\u011fil, nafaka gibi kocaya vacip olan mali bir hakt\u0131r. Hz. Peygamber, Ali (r.a)\u2019a k\u0131z\u0131 F\u00e2t\u0131ma\u2019ya mehir olarak fazla bir z\u0131rh\u0131n\u0131 vermesini bildirmi\u015ftir. [55]<\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n
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( <\/strong>\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0670\u062a\u064e\u064a\u0652\u062a\u064f\u0645\u0652 <\/strong>\u0627\u0650\u062d\u0652\u062f\u0670\u064a\u0647\u064f\u0646\u0651\u064e <\/strong>\u0642\u0650\u0646\u0652\u0637\u064e\u0627\u0631\u064b\u0627 <\/strong>\u0641\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627 <\/strong>\u062a\u064e\u0627\u0652\u062e\u064f\u0630\u064f\u0648\u0627 <\/strong>\u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652\u0647\u064f <\/strong>\u0634\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0640\u0654\u064b\u0627 \u2026) \u201cOnlardan birine y\u00fcklerle mehir vermi\u015f olsan\u0131z bile, ondan bir \u015fey almay\u0131n\u0131z.\u201d [46]<\/strong><\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n
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(<\/strong>\u0627\u064e\u0633\u0652\u0643\u0650\u0646\u064f\u0648\u0647\u064f\u0646\u0651\u064e <\/strong>\u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652 <\/strong>\u062d\u064e\u064a\u0652\u062b\u064f <\/strong>\u0633\u064e\u0643\u064e\u0646\u0652\u062a\u064f\u0645\u0652 <\/strong>\u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652 <\/strong>\u0648\u064f\u062c\u0652\u062f\u0650\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652 ) \u201cBo\u015fanan kad\u0131nlar\u0131, g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fcn yetti\u011fi kadar ikamet etti\u011finiz yerin bir b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnde oturtun\u2026\u201d [58]<\/strong><\/h4>\n
(<\/strong>\u0648\u064e\u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0649 <\/strong>\u0627\u0644\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0648\u0652\u0644\u064f\u0648\u062f\u0650 <\/strong>\u0644\u064e\u0647\u064f <\/strong>\u0631\u0650\u0632\u0652\u0642\u064f\u0647\u064f\u0646\u0651\u064e <\/strong>\u0648\u064e\u0643\u0650\u0633\u0652\u0648\u064e\u062a\u064f\u0647\u064f\u0646\u0651\u064e <\/strong>\u0628\u0650\u0627\u0644\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0631\u064f\u0648\u0641\u0650) \u201cAnnelerin yiyecek ve giyece\u011fi iyi bilinen \u00f6rfe g\u00f6re \u00e7ocu\u011fun babas\u0131na aittir.\u201d [59]<\/strong><\/h4>\n
(<\/strong>\u0644\u0650\u064a\u064f\u0646\u0652\u0641\u0650\u0642\u0652 <\/strong>\u0630\u064f\u0648 <\/strong>\u0633\u064e\u0639\u064e\u0629\u064d <\/strong>\u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652 <\/strong>\u0633\u064e\u0639\u064e\u062a\u0650\u0647\u06ea <\/strong>\u0648\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0646\u0652 <\/strong>\u0642\u064f\u062f\u0650\u0631\u064e <\/strong>\u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0647\u0650 <\/strong>\u0631\u0650\u0632\u0652\u0642\u064f\u0647\u064f <\/strong>\u0641\u064e\u0644\u0652\u064a\u064f\u0646\u0652\u0641\u0650\u0642\u0652 <\/strong>\u0645\u0650\u0645\u0651\u064e\u0627\u06e4 <\/strong>\u0627\u0670\u062a\u0670\u064a\u0647\u064f <\/strong>\u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u0670\u0647\u064f <\/strong>\u0644\u064e\u0627 <\/strong>\u064a\u064f\u0643\u064e\u0644\u0651\u0650\u0641\u064f <\/strong>\u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u0670\u0647\u064f <\/strong>\u0646\u064e\u0641\u0652\u0633\u064b\u0627 <\/strong>\u0627\u0650\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0627 <\/strong>\u0645\u064e\u0627\u06e4 <\/strong>\u0627\u0670\u062a\u0670\u064a\u0647\u064e\u0627 <\/strong>\u0633\u064e\u064a\u064e\u062c\u0652\u0639\u064e\u0644\u064f <\/strong>\u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u0670\u0647\u064f <\/strong>\u0628\u064e\u0639\u0652\u062f\u064e <\/strong>\u0639\u064f\u0633\u0652\u0631\u064d <\/strong>\u064a\u064f\u0633\u0652\u0631\u064b\u0627) \u201cVarl\u0131kl\u0131 olan kimse, nafakay\u0131 varl\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6re versin. R\u0131zk\u0131 kendisine daralt\u0131lan yoksul da nafakay\u0131 Allah\u2019\u0131n ona verdi\u011finden versin. Allah, hi\u00e7 kimseye ona verdi\u011finden ba\u015fka bir \u015fey y\u00fcklemez. Allah, bir g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn arkas\u0131ndan kolayl\u0131k verir.\u201d [60]<\/strong><\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n
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(<\/strong>\u0641\u064e\u0627\u0650\u0646\u0652 <\/strong>\u0637\u064e\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0647\u064e\u0627 <\/strong>\u0641\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627 <\/strong>\u062a\u064e\u062d\u0650\u0644\u0651\u064f <\/strong>\u0644\u064e\u0647\u064f <\/strong>\u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652 <\/strong>\u0628\u064e\u0639\u0652\u062f\u064f <\/strong>\u062d\u064e\u062a\u0651\u0670\u0649 <\/strong>\u062a\u064e\u0646\u0652\u0643\u0650\u062d\u064e <\/strong>\u0632\u064e\u0648\u0652\u062c\u064b\u0627 <\/strong>\u063a\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0631\u064e\u0647\u064f <\/strong>\u0641\u064e\u0627\u0650\u0646\u0652 <\/strong>\u0637\u064e\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0647\u064e\u0627 <\/strong>\u0641\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627 <\/strong>\u062c\u064f\u0646\u064e\u0627\u062d\u064e <\/strong>\u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0647\u0650\u0645\u064e\u0627\u06e4 <\/strong>\u0627\u064e\u0646\u0652 <\/strong>\u064a\u064e\u062a\u064e\u0631\u064e\u0627\u062c\u064e\u0639\u064e\u0627\u06e4 <\/strong>\u0627\u0650\u0646\u0652 <\/strong>\u0638\u064e\u0646\u0651\u0627\u064e\u06e4 <\/strong>\u0627\u064e\u0646\u0652 <\/strong>\u064a\u064f\u0642\u06ea\u064a\u0645\u064e\u0627 <\/strong>\u062d\u064f\u062f\u064f\u0648\u062f\u064e <\/strong>\u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u0670\u0647\u0650 <\/strong>\u0648\u064e\u062a\u0650\u0644\u0652\u0643\u064e <\/strong>\u062d\u064f\u062f\u064f\u0648\u062f\u064f <\/strong>\u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u0670\u0647\u0650 <\/strong>\u064a\u064f\u0628\u064e\u064a\u0651\u0650\u0646\u064f\u0647\u064e\u0627 <\/strong>\u0644\u0650\u0642\u064e\u0648\u0652\u0645\u064d <\/strong>\u064a\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0644\u064e\u0645\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064e) \u201cE\u011fer erkek kad\u0131n\u0131 (\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc defa) bo\u015farsa, bundan sonra kad\u0131n bir ba\u015fka erkekle evlenmedik\u00e7e, onu almas\u0131 kendisine helal olmaz. Bu (yeni koca) da onu bo\u015farsa, Allah\u2019\u0131n s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 koruyabileceklerine inand\u0131klar\u0131 takdirde, \u00f6ncekilerin birbirlerine d\u00f6nmelerinde her ikisine de g\u00fcnah yoktur. \u0130\u015fte bunlar, Allah\u2019\u0131n s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131d\u0131r. Bunlar\u0131 bilen bir toplum i\u00e7in a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131yor.\u201d [66]<\/strong><\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n
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(<\/strong>\u064a\u064e\u0627\u06e4 <\/strong>\u0627\u064e\u064a\u0651\u064f\u0647\u064e\u0627 <\/strong>\u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0628\u0650\u064a\u0651\u064f <\/strong>\u0627\u0650\u0630\u064e\u0627 <\/strong>\u0637\u064e\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0642\u0652\u062a\u064f\u0645\u064f <\/strong>\u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u0650\u0633\u064e\u0627\u06e4\u0621\u064e <\/strong>\u0641\u064e\u0637\u064e\u0644\u0651\u0650\u0642\u064f\u0648\u0647\u064f\u0646\u0651\u064e <\/strong>\u0644\u0650\u0639\u0650\u062f\u0651\u064e\u062a\u0650\u0647\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e <\/strong>\u0648\u064e\u0627\u064e\u062d\u0652\u0635\u064f\u0648\u0627 <\/strong>\u0627\u0644\u0652\u0639\u0650\u062f\u0651\u064e\u0629\u064e) \u201cEy Peygamber! Kad\u0131nlar\u0131 bo\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z zaman, iddetlerini g\u00f6zeterek bo\u015fay\u0131n ve iddeti de say\u0131n\u2026\u201d [67]<\/strong><\/h4>\n
( <\/strong>\u0641\u064e\u0627\u0650\u0630\u064e\u0627 <\/strong>\u0628\u064e\u0644\u064e\u063a\u0652\u0646\u064e <\/strong>\u0627\u064e\u062c\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0646\u0651\u064e <\/strong>\u0641\u064e\u0627\u064e\u0645\u0652\u0633\u0650\u0643\u064f\u0648\u0647\u064f\u0646\u0651\u064e <\/strong>\u0628\u0650\u0645\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0631\u064f\u0648\u0641\u064d <\/strong>\u0627\u064e\u0648\u0652 <\/strong>\u0641\u064e\u0627\u0631\u0650\u0642\u064f\u0648\u0647\u064f\u0646\u0651\u064e <\/strong>\u0628\u0650\u0645\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0631\u064f\u0648\u0641\u064d <\/strong>\u0648\u064e\u0627\u064e\u0634\u0652\u0647\u0650\u062f\u064f\u0648\u0627 <\/strong>\u0630\u064e\u0648\u064e\u0649\u0652 <\/strong>\u0639\u064e\u062f\u0652\u0644\u064d <\/strong>\u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652) \u201c\u0130ddet s\u00fcrelerini doldurduklar\u0131nda, onlar\u0131 ya iyilikle tutun veya onlardan iyilikle ayr\u0131l\u0131n. \u0130\u00e7inizden adalet sahibi iki ki\u015fiyi de \u015fahit tutun\u2026\u201d [68]<\/strong><\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n
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(<\/strong>\u064a\u064e\u0627\u06e4 <\/strong>\u0627\u064e\u064a\u0651\u064f\u0647\u064e\u0627 <\/strong>\u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0628\u0650\u064a\u0651\u064f <\/strong>\u0642\u064f\u0644\u0652 <\/strong>\u0644\u0650\u0627\u064e\u0632\u0652\u0648\u064e\u0627\u062c\u0650\u0643\u064e <\/strong>\u0627\u0650\u0646\u0652 <\/strong>\u0643\u064f\u0646\u0652\u062a\u064f\u0646\u0651\u064e <\/strong>\u062a\u064f\u0631\u0650\u062f\u0652\u0646\u064e <\/strong>\u0627\u0644\u0652\u062d\u064e\u064a\u0670\u0648\u0629\u064e <\/strong>\u0627\u0644\u062f\u0651\u064f\u0646\u0652\u064a\u064e\u0627 <\/strong>\u0648\u064e\u0632\u06ea\u064a\u0646\u064e\u062a\u064e\u0647\u064e\u0627 <\/strong>\u0641\u064e\u062a\u064e\u0639\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0646\u064e <\/strong>\u0627\u064f\u0645\u064e\u062a\u0651\u0650\u0639\u0652\u0643\u064f\u0646\u0651\u064e <\/strong>\u0648\u064e\u0627\u064f\u0633\u064e\u0631\u0651\u0650\u062d\u0652\u0643\u064f\u0646\u0651\u064e <\/strong>\u0633\u064e\u0631\u064e\u0627\u062d\u064b\u0627 <\/strong>\u062c\u064e\u0645\u06ea\u064a\u0644\u064b\u0627 ) \u201cEy peygamber! E\u015flerine de ki: E\u011fer siz, d\u00fcnya hayat\u0131n\u0131 ve onun s\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc istiyorsan\u0131z, gelin, size bo\u015fanma bedellerinizi vereyim ve sizi g\u00fczellikle serbest b\u0131rakay\u0131m.\u201d [73]<\/strong><\/h4>\n
(<\/strong>\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0650\u0646\u0652 <\/strong>\u0643\u064f\u0646\u0652\u062a\u064f\u0646\u0651\u064e <\/strong>\u062a\u064f\u0631\u0650\u062f\u0652\u0646\u064e <\/strong>\u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u0670\u0647\u064e <\/strong>\u0648\u064e\u0631\u064e\u0633\u064f\u0648\u0644\u064e\u0647\u064f <\/strong>\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u062f\u0651\u064e\u0627\u0631\u064e <\/strong>\u0627\u0644\u0652\u0627\u0670\u062e\u0650\u0631\u064e\u0629\u064e <\/strong>\u0641\u064e\u0627\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e <\/strong>\u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u0670\u0647\u064e <\/strong>\u0627\u064e\u0639\u064e\u062f\u0651\u064e <\/strong>\u0644\u0650\u0644\u0652\u0645\u064f\u062d\u0652\u0633\u0650\u0646\u064e\u0627\u062a\u0650 <\/strong>\u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652\u0643\u064f\u0646\u0651\u064e <\/strong>\u0627\u064e\u062c\u0652\u0631\u064b\u0627 <\/strong>\u0639\u064e\u0638\u06ea\u064a\u0645\u064b\u0627 ) \u201cE\u011fer siz, Allah\u2019\u0131, el\u00e7isini ve ahiret yurdunu istiyorsan\u0131z, biliniz ki Allah, i\u00e7inizden iyi i\u015fler yapanlara b\u00fcy\u00fck bir m\u00fck\u00e2fat haz\u0131rlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.\u201d [74]<\/strong><\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n
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(<\/strong>\u0648\u064e\u0644\u0650\u0644\u0652\u0645\u064f\u0637\u064e\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0627\u062a\u0650 <\/strong>\u0645\u064e\u062a\u064e\u0627\u0639\u064c <\/strong>\u0628\u0650\u0627\u0644\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0631\u064f\u0648\u0641\u0650 <\/strong>\u062d\u064e\u0642\u0651\u064b\u0627 <\/strong>\u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0649 <\/strong>\u0627\u0644\u0652\u0645\u064f\u062a\u0651\u064e\u0642\u06ea\u064a\u0646\u064e) \u201cBo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7in, Allah\u2019tan korkan erkekler \u00fczerinde bir hak olarak, \u00f6rfe uygun (ma\u2019r\u00fbf) bir yararlanma hakk\u0131 vard\u0131r.\u201d [79]<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/blockquote>\n
Dipnotlar<\/h6>\n
[1] Yeni \u00dcmit Dergisi\u2019nin 2.03.2014\u2019te \u0130stanbul\u2019da d\u00fczenledi\u011fi \u201cAilenin Korunmas\u0131 ve Mut\u2019a Fitnesi\u201d konulu sempozyumda bildiri olarak sunulmak \u00fczere haz\u0131rlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/h6>\n
[54] Nis\u00e2, 4\/4. bk. 4\/24.<\/h6>\n
[55] Eb\u00fb D\u00e2v\u00fbd, Nik\u00e2h, 35; Nes\u00e2\u00ee, Nik\u00e2h, 76; Ahmed \u0130bn Hanbel, I, 80.<\/h6>\n
[56] Nis\u00e2, 4\/20.<\/h6>\n
[57] \u015eevk\u00e2n\u00ee, Neyl, VI, 168; Heysem\u00ee, Mecmau\u2019z-Zev\u00e2id, M\u0131s\u0131r, ty, IV, 283 vd.<\/h6>\n
[58] Talak, 65\/6.<\/h6>\n
[59] Bakara, 2\/233.<\/h6>\n
[60] Tal\u00e2k, 65\/7.<\/h6>\n
[61] Bakara, 2\/280.<\/h6>\n
[62] \u0130bn\u00fc\u2019l-H\u00fcm\u00e2m, Fethu\u2019l-Kad\u00eer, III, 321-339; K\u00e2s\u00e2n\u00ee, Bed\u00e2yi\u2019, IV, 14, 15.<\/h6>\n
[63] Bakara, 2\/229 .<\/h6>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"